Here’s introducing my friend, Ada – one of the most beautiful souls I have ever met, who served in the US military. We explored her story from growing up in Nigeria, moving to the US, being drafted into the army, getting married, surviving an eventful divorce, raising multicultural kids, and life as a single mom. We explored divorce in a cultural context (stigma, shame, losing friends, etc.) and what we can do to support divorcees around us (and it is not by choosing sides or totally avoiding them like a plague). We also talked about PTSD, mental health, and ways to self-care - post-divorce. Outro-ish Song: *Don’t Let Us Get Sick* by Pat Guadagno; the original song was by Warren Zevon Fun fact about Ada: She backpacked across Europe. PS: To all the veterans like Ada, thank you for your service. TL; DL: How to Thrive after a Divorce: Choose your battles Stay alive Do not rush into any kind of relationship (except with Ben and Jerry’s Ice-cream and chocolates, of course :-D) Take your time to open up Be vulnerable but not enough to allow reopening of old, healed wounds Don’t waste yesterday’s tears on today